Welcome to London Confessional

SINGLE AND LOOKING

Hi ladies,am a single man of black origin,44yrs old.London can be lonely at times,its all about work work and work and life its just at a very fast pace.Where is that single lonely lady who want her days to be brightened by a charming man?her evenings to look as great as mornings?her winters to look as summer?..if you read this and you are like..oooh yees...then drop me a line..we are just in the beggining of the year...the end might be a great story ! xx

Sat Jan 20

loneliness

really sad to see and hear on daily bases how many are lonely yet the world is full of people with different races,sexes and cultures.

I really think and strongly believe its time to stand and fight against this.But how do we do it that is the big question?

I will suggest self examination is the key.The world is becoming so self centered and self sufficient.We all love our space but at the end of the day what do we do with this space?LONELY

majority walk pass you or you walk pass them everyday not even a smile or a hello.many are just crossed with others for no real course.At the end loneliness is what you get.

so dear friends we should start changing our ways.Promise yourself to say hello or to put a smile on at least a face each day and I promise you loneliness will be a thing of the pass. thanks

Sun May 07

loneliness

really sad to see and hear on daily bases how many are lonely yet the world is full of people with different races,sexes and cultures.

I really think and strongly believe its time to stand and fight against this.But how do we do it that is the big question?

I will suggest self examination is the key.The world is becoming so self centered and self sufficient.We all love our space but at the end of the day what do we do with this space?LONELY

majority walk pass you or you walk pass them everyday not even a smile or a hello.many are just crossed with others for no real course.At the end loneliness is what you get.

so dear friends we should start changing our ways.Promise yourself to say hello or to put a smile on at least a face each day and I promise you loneliness will be a thing of the pass. thanks

Sun May 07

Potential newfriend

Hi, just read your ad and can really understand where you're coming from you as I'm in the boat too. I'm a black female, in my thirties, looking for genuine female friends. Would be great if we could try and make a difference to each others lives, mail me if you're interested in making a new genuine friendship.

Mon Apr 24

Confessional

Hi, it's been a while since your ad. Hope you found a friend by now. If you are still in need, there is a parent n child club opening near me, depending on where you live, where you can meet others. If interested email me on:

Tue Jul 12

Reply

Hi, please email me for a chat re yr ad

Email:

Tue Jul 12

Hi

Looking for a lady who enjoys being admired in stockings and heels would love to meet someone on a regular basis Surrey area ********6

Tue Apr 12

London Calling

After many years of talking and meeting people along my daily wonders, today I feel completely transparent. I am witty, funny, and creative, I do not feel lonely but I am quite alone at time. Most time it is great, I float, around, people watch, chat with shopkeepers , joke with passengers at bus stops, listen to the moaning crowd but I long for the meaningful encounter, for someone to be just a little more interested , Someone who wants to call again, someone who turn their head and notice me. Do I believe this person exist? I have not given hope , on the contrary but sometime it is just harder not feel doubtfully blue.

Bottle in the sea

Fri May 15

Lonely in london support group

If so, lets do this. Lets make it happen. What have you got to loose???? (apart from loneliness:)

Mon Apr 06

is there any generous landlord willing to give us as a gift an unwanted house?

Hi,

we are a poor couple who cant afford a mortgage and we are desperately looking for a generous landlord who has an unwanted house to give us as a gift please. Only real owner please.

if you do please get in touch with your details. my email is

Sun Mar 29

Hi I'm up for making new friends. Send me an email

Wed Feb 25

It could have been me 60 years ago.

I remember when a very nice looking young lady attacked me, on a Cambridge street, giving me a luvly hug and a kiss. She made my day.....where is she now?

I was that lonely irresistible airman, just back from an overseas tour serving my country.

Tue Sep 30

Photographer wants to hear from you.

I am a young photographer just out of college working on a new project. I am asking people to think of anything, a memory, a dream, a wish, it can really be anything, any interesting thoughts from your imagination.

You would receive free copies of the images and help contribute towards a fun project. The final photos will be exhibited in a local photo exhibition.

Please contact me at

Sun Apr 27

My god you broke my heart.

I've been on this journey,you will find someone , it will not happen when you are looking,you will know when it does,you seem lovely,never lose confidence in yourself xx good luck

Tue Feb 18

FRIENDS

Hello well after over a year I have seen your reply lol! I hope since your posting you have indeed found some good friends. I myself am still looking. I wish you well. If you would like to leave your phone no. I could give you a call.

Mon Nov 18

Blonde handsome guy was last seen today at 18:40 when getting off on Canada Water station

You were a very handsome blond guy smiling back at me on a Jubilee line today(probably after work). We were going from Bond Street and at first both busy with our phone games. I got a seat not far from the entrance and you were standing all the way next to the entrance, till you got off at Canada Water station at about 18:40.

You made me smile alooot when you were ready to get off!!!

Would you like to take that journey again with me and maybe ask for my number?;)) Or just say hi and smile back again?:))

Blonde girl with long hair and in black dress & jacket.

Wed Sep 18

Hello just in case it would help

I am a frenchman who love to speak english and would like to improve. I am looking for an english woman who likes to speak and visit with me. I am 65 slim, doing sport (cycling, jogging, cross-country skiing. I live near St-Etienne in France and I hope to go to england to speak and improve my english I do'nt know when.

Mon Aug 19

Looking for a genuine friend

Hello, I am feeling a little lonely here in London. Would like to find someone who wants to share a genuine friendship. I am very easy-going person. I am brazilian and I also need a friend who has patient, because the english language is still a challenge to me. I am a real person who wants to make friends... If you want to make a friend, write me.

Thu Jul 11

Hi. There iim sorry to hear that ,has your advert in & have u met met people

Wed Jul 10

looking for girl friend , london

hi, my name is zak 32 yrs old looking for girl friend in london , friendship fun act , so any female interested then text ********1 thanks

Sat Jul 06

I guess it depends on how your relationship has progressed so far? Have you been talking long, are you seeing eachother as friends, dating etc. On what basis did you two meet? Have you been given any signs that she likes you? I would just ask her if she sees something further developing between you two or would she like to remain platonic friends. If so, suggest you can take it slow and see what happens, Good luck!! :)

Sun Jun 30

I felt completely in love with a girl I met online from this site. She is in an amazing woman, perfect in every way, I just knew she was special. She was hurt in the past and I get it. I already told her I like her { I do not think she is aware I'm actually in love). I don't want to scare her off, but I really want to be with her. I haven't been able to be with anyone else since the day I meet her. How should I proceed, to show her that I genuinely want a long term relationship with her?- Any tips would be great.

Sat Jun 22

Love online?

After a few years of talking and meeting people online I finally met my wonderful fiancée in my mid twenties. Like most women, yeah ive been hurt before and wondered if I'd ever meet someone who would truly love me for me and would be a loving person but once I actually believed I would - I did! I wish the same for genuine people looking for love and a longterm relationship. Ladies, don't give up if you're still looking because he's out there. Don't let the years pass you by and the guy you might think doesn't tick every single box might tick a missing box that's not your list.

Thu Jun 13

hello there

my name is domi ,female ,on my thirties.sometimes I feel that way too !!!I also have a son he is six !!!we live in SE .what is your name? coffee sometime?all the best

Wed May 08

You never left your name!

Wed Jan 16

HAPPINESS

What a great idea. Yes I dared to get back to you lol.

Wed Jan 16

Hi, not sure if you'd even see my reply but i can also relate to your post and you're really not the only one. I too, am finding it hard to make friends although i'm sociable and a genuine person. And just when i think i've made a friend it does fizzle out. I just think if people don't bother to make the effort to build a friendship theyre not worth having as a friend in the long run. I hope youre successful in finding friends and wish you all the best :)

Sat Jan 12

LONELY

You sound like me!

So so true. You meet people and just when you think you have made a new friend you never hear from them again. So sad so sad.

Good Luck you know the song "always look on the bright side of life" (well you can try lol)!

Fri Dec 14

Hi all I've just read through some of the previous posts n its so sad to hear just how lonely so many people are. I have hardly any friends so know that feeling of isolation so well. I spend days with my only conversation from either my young son or work colleagues. Christmas iscoming up and is another reminder of just how alone I am. I've tried making friends on these friendship sites but although people I've met seemed like the were also looking for genuine friendships they always fizzle out after a while. Fed up of always feeling Luke an outsider looking in on the world full of people that have lives full of people. I'm a good person, loyal, social, chatty & fun. I just don't understand why I can't make a few genuine friends.

Fri Dec 07

Hi all I've just read through some of the previous posts & its so sad to hear just how lonely so many people are. I have hardly any friends so know that feeling of isolation so well. I spend days with my only conversation from either my young son or work colleagues. Christmas is coming up and is another reminder of just how alone I am. I've tried making friends on these friendship sites but although people I've spoken to / emailed seemed like the were also looking for genuine friendships they always fizzle out after a while. Fed up of always feeling like an outsider looking in on the world full of people that have lives full of people. I'm a good person, loyal, social, chatty & fun. I just don't understand why I can't make a few genuine friends.

Fri Dec 07

Oh dear

Life is incredible and sometimes hard. But sometimes we attract bad stuff into our lives just as we can attract amazing, beautiful things into our lives. I sometimes have a bad day. Then I look at my cats or a beautiful yellow leaf, or just the fact that I have good skin/ good health/ a roof over my head and I am greatful. Everything is put into perspective when this happens and it reminds me to be grateful for the good things in my life, I realise that these outway the negatives. Everything starts with one, you. Love you first and give and offer help to those that need it. Try it yourself.

Cx

Mon Nov 19

alone

You sound like me!

30 October 2012

Tue Oct 30

oh dear, that doesn

It's not good to hear another person going through a bad time. And it can turn into a cycle of self fulfilling negativity... Pushing people away or drawing the wrong people in. I guess it's up to all of us to create that sense of belonging for each other but that also starts with creating that in ourselves, doesn't it? There's lots of things that can help... Start the search, then find the people who are also on that voyage :) you'll do it, but not if you stay posting feelings into forums or contemplating an end. Wish u the very best, I survived similar darkness, I 'm sure u can too :D

Sat Oct 27

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Mon Oct 22

hi

hi

i know its a really late reply.but still if u are interested to chat please feel free to email me on

Mon Aug 13

Im reaching out from NW6 London

Female 30 something ex office manager currently unemployed, no kids. When I'm done with my daily job hunting. I find myself reaching for a glass of wine because I am so bored and lonely.

I would really like to hear from someone just around the corner from me, a non smoker who also enjoys a drink but wants to go for walks and see a bit of London.

I'm tired of looking out the window all the time and not having anyone to speak to.

I am a warm friendly bubbly down to earth person a bit nervous going out but always venture out with the right company.

If you relate to anything I have said above, don't smoke and live in the Camden area. Please please send me a message. I'm in no rush to meet and I'm happy to email back and forth for a while before we meet.

Wed May 23

BETTER OFF DEAD

How much can people take. Think i am so bad God is punishing me. Feel so lonely. When you need someone there is no one around no one cares no one cares.

Wed Sep 28

Have depression, anxiety, feel im in a helpless job...

I'm a woman in my twenties, have depression and anxiety :( I'm not constantly at a low but when i am i fall into despair and am very tearful. After being out of work long-term i got a p/t job for just under £8/hr, doesnt pay much but i'm aiming towards working with youth which is what i want to do. Just wish i had female friends that could relate to having depression, anxiety or feel theyre in a helpless job because of lack of qualifications/experience but are trying to improve their job prospects. Feel so alone at times, any women in the same situation? Reply msg or

Mon Sep 12

Hey there,

I'm actually hoping this finds you in a much happier frame of mind already but if not drop me a line and let's have a good old moan together :) I'm a 28yr old female and also pretty alone in London so would be nice to chat.

Tue Sep 06

ONE LIFE

Hey, guys and girls how about all of us meeting up and then we can cheer each other up! Get back to me if you dare lol!

Tue Aug 30

I confuss

That I have recently started swinging and I really enjoy it! =)

Sat Aug 27

Cont

Ive been feeling very low for over a year now . Initially I tried to be positive and find good things in bad situation and convince myself that this is just temporary and if you stay positive things will change for the better. Ive also tried counselling but it didn't help because I know that my depression is caused by social isolation. I m overwhelmed by the feeling of despair and I feel I ve reached my breaking point . All I need is an ocassional good night out with good conversations and some laughs

Mon Aug 08

Cont

I ve also recently had a lot of problems at work, where I ve been demoted due to budget cuts and my new manager's idea of managing people is to constantly reproach them and demonstrate her superiority at every possible and trivial situation. My confidence has been badly really affected by that and I can't find it in any more to make an effort and speak to anyone at work.

Mon Aug 08

Please help - cont

I feel so lonely and starved of human interactions. I feel this is really badly affecting my brain, my mental health and my personality. I m in a relationship but my relationship badly suffers due to lack of social life and opportunities I desperately need to be able to have social contact with more than just one person.

Mon Aug 08

please help

I feel extremely lonely and isolated. I m a normal women , relatively intelligent and good looking , fun loving with lots of interest ,well travelled , compassionate and with something to say for myself. Yet for one reason or another all my friends just drifted out from my life and I hardly have any social life. I ve tried a number of social networking sites and meet up groups but i found them very superficial and temporary . I really struggled to to make any meaningful friendships through those groups. By this I mean where you really become a part of someone's life ( and vice versa) and where you can have shared experiences and can talkto each other about everything. Any friendships i had made only lasted a couple of years and then people just moved on to other things and I hardly see them anymore.

Mon Aug 08

jhjhj

Sun Aug 07

feeling very low

Frequently experiencing bouts of depression and touch wood I have just pulled myself from another dark cloud.

The trouble is my relationship is on the rocks and my partner though generally lovely has a terrible (verbal) temper when he is argumenative.

The other day I caught him looking at other women when we were out driving - he has never done this before.

I am in love with him and he says I can trust him but I am struggling to do this. I am now worried whether he may be having affairs as his behaviour blows hot and cold.

Should I just put this down to a bad patch or confront him? Sorry to sound so absorbed - believe it or not I am normally a happy person but just struggling of late whether I am being paranoid or it would be perfectly acceptable to ask him??

Mon Apr 25

HAPPINESS

It is so good to be able to say things on here when you are feeling sorry for yourself. Yes, there is no harm in thinking like that because if i do not think of myself who else would My life is nearly over but I look back and wonder to myself has anybody ever loved me and the only person who i can remember was my late father. Life is so short those who have found ever lasting love are blessed they can never know how lucky they are. All I ever wanted in my life was to be loved, was that too much to ask for i wonder.

Tue Mar 15

A NEW YEAR

and a new beginning...... I wonder. Glad to hear you had a lovely Christmas....

Mon Jan 24

Hi all I have been reading all of your messages and I can relate to you all in some way or other basically for me I have a handful of really good mates & I'm so grateful for them only thing this year they all have found partners " cue paranoia ' bloody don't wanaawful sometime like an unwanted visitor however I don't wana depress u all & don't get me wrong I have times when I don't worry about & just get along but of course like most of us there are times I get very lonely ( I know its normal though ) but I'm a very social person so I'm would love to socialist more in a group I ha

Wed Jan 12

belinda

Hi belinda I also had the same thought & think it would be great. For a group.of us to get together how shall we start this?

Sat Jan 08

Hi are you planning to a social group up? Great count me in please, u can email me at

Wed Jan 05

HUGS ETC.

Now that sounds a good idea to me

Tue Jan 04

So sorry u had that experience it has such an imtional impact ;.when I have gone through relationship issues close friends what keep me going ., counselling can be helpful ..don't give up god bless you

Mon Jan 03

I agree I believe their are many lonely people out,there & life is too short., as for me on news years eve all my friends have partners so no invites for,me : ( but I don't want sympathy because iv decidgoiing to do my best to change that :) if anyone reading this is in similar situation feel free to email me , I'm a female genuine 43 live in east London & am interested if anyone knows of any social groups or have ideas. Cheers

Mon Jan 03

I agree I believe their are many lonely people out,there & life is too short., as for me on news years eve all my friends have partners so no invites for,me : ( but I don't want sympathy because iv decidgoiing to do my best to change that :) if anyone reading this is in similar situation feel free to email me , I'm a female genuine 43 live in east London & am interested if anyone knows of any social groups or have ideas. Cheers

Mon Jan 03

just found

a great site called meet up'

it's london based & has lots of cool groups to take part within..

Sun Jan 02

Hey

lets all work to towards a happy year :0)

open your hearts to a new adventure..

reading some of these post makes me feel sad that there's so many people feeling a bit lost & low at the moment'

we should form a group where we can a little moan & shed some sad moments.. get a little drink & have group hug's :0)

all the best to you all

T

Sat Jan 01

thank you

Hi Tony, thanks for taking the time to post a reply. I do try to remember that most people are good but some are deeply rotten to the core, but they hide it very well. It's scary that they are so good at fooling people. If the landlord in the Bristol murder case is guilty, look how he looked well accomplished, a member of numerous community organisations and was described as a 'pillar of society'. This all has such parallels with the guy I was mixed up with. It scares me to think these people are out there :0(

Thu Dec 30

Thank you for your kind words and time

Hi Tony, thanks for taking the time to post a reply. I do try to remember that most people are good but some are deeply rotten to the core, but they hide it very well. It's scary that they are so good at fooling people. If the landlord in the Bristol murder case is guilty, look how he looked well accomplished, a member of numerous community organisations and was described as a 'pillar of society'. This all has such parallels with the guy I was mixed up with. It scares me to think these people are out there :0(

Thu Dec 30

Thank you for your kind words and time

Hi Tony, thanks for taking the time to post a reply. I do try to remember that most people are good but some are deeply rotten to the core, but they hide it very well. It's scary that they are so good at fooling people. If the landlord in the Bristol murder case is guilty, look how he looked well accomplished, a member of numerous community organisations and was described as a 'pillar of society'. This all has such parallels with the guy I was mixed up with. It scares me to think these people are out there :0(

Thu Dec 30

christmas

was ok in the end' got round to some friends :0)

looking to start the new year on a happy note.. hope you are too?

Thu Dec 30

CHRISTMAS

Thank you for your kind thoughts.

I hope you are having a lovely time over Christmas.

Sun Dec 26

hope you had a good day..

keep your chin up :0)

Sun Dec 26

CHRISTMAS DAY

I hope today goes by quickly I am on my own and feel so alone..... I feel there is no one who really cares of loves me. I feel guilty when I think of others less fortunate than myself and am trying not to feel ashamed of myself feeling this way. I wish everyone out there finds joy in each and every moment each day. xxx

Sat Dec 25

COMMENTS MADE

Hi Tony, Just looking at your message again..... what you said is so true. Especially about showing kindness and in return people take advantage of you. I am interested in what you said about finding me "a few bits" within your company. What type of company? I am not around at the moment but would be available from beginning of April. I hope to hear from you soon. bye for now.

Thu Dec 23

hi suzi

please don't change your lovely heart :0)

we are all different in this world.

by some people kindness is seen as a weakness.

what you have wrote, makes me feel like some times i'm in that place' so my heart goes out to you :0)

I'm at a lose end for christmas & have just contacted criss at christmas to see if i can get involved with helping others less fortunet than myself.

i always try to remember that life isn't out to get us sencitive souls :0)

& it would be really boring if life was an easy ride

all the best

Tony

p.s if you still need some to do? then i've got a few bits you could probably do within my company.

Mon Dec 20

hi isabel

some times we are fooled in to thinking people are some thing they are not?!

& it dose hurt & it can knock you :(

just try to remember that there are nice people out there :0)

all the best

Tony

Mon Dec 20

liar

Just wanted to get off my chest how my life has drastically changed for the worse since I met a man that I eventually discovered was a pathological liar. I nearly married this man, I planned a life with him. I Introduced him to every aspect of my life as you would the man you wished to spend the rest of your life with. Over 2 years later, I have been left in a total mess. I am a very good judge of character, believe me. He is an astoundingly good and highly believable liar. He is genuinely well accomplished, yet chooses to also fabricate large chunks of his life I presume to feel better about himself. They say you can judge a man by the company he keeps, well the very few friends he has were lovely, and totally had no idea he had fabricated his army career (I confirmed his lies via Sandhurst). I now see he lied constantly, about everything. It scares me that there are such people around. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

Sat Dec 18

liar

Just wanted to get off my chest how my life has drastically changed for the worse since I met a man that I eventually discovered was a pathological liar. I nearly married this man, I planned a life with him. I Introduced him to every aspect of my life as you would the man you wished to spend the rest of your life with. Over 2 years later, I have been left in a total mess. I am a very good judge of character, believe me. He is an astoundingly good and highly believable liar. He is genuinely well accomplished, yet chooses to also fabricate large chunks of his life I presume to feel better about himself. They say you can judge a man by the company he keeps, well the very few friends he has were lovely, and totally had no idea he had fabricated his army career (I confirmed his lies via Sandhurst). I now see he lied constantly, about everything. It scares me that there are such people around. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

Sat Dec 18

VOLUNTEERING

Hello I have only just seen your reply. I think it is a good idea but to be honest I need a regular income. What with Christmas coming up!

Take care x

Mon Dec 06

hi suzzy

maybe you can try volunteering - im not sure if that financially viable for you at the mo , but its a good way of getting experience, gaining new skills , easing your way into an organisation , making contacts etc . But also it will ensure you are in a social environment , are around people and ....giving something back - positive on all fronts ...best of luck x

Sun Nov 28

FRIEND?

Hello. How lovely of you to reply to me.

Can you tell me about yourself pls. I will not give my email address out if you do not mind but I will look on here most days to see if you reply again.

Thank you once again to get back to me.

Sun Nov 07

contact me

I perfectly understand, feel like you.If you want contact me at

Sat Nov 06

HAPPINESS

Yes, that is all I wanted in life to find happiness but most of all to be loved. I feel like I am dying inside and sometimes I think I want to end it all.... too much pain to much. I feel so lonely. Everyone in life has their problems that is true but since I was 9 yrs. old I have felt unloved. I keep being hurt all the time it never stops. I am very soft inside and believe and trust people only to have people critisise me ...... I never can do the right thing. Why can people accept me for what i am. Could go on and on but just to say these things on here .......... sorry just feeling sorry for myself today.

Fri Nov 05

Re: hummm

Fancy a quickie then? I can offer that

Wed Jul 21

CAN ANYONE HELP????

Hi. I am a mature women who is desperatly seeking work. I will do anything I do not mind what. Please if there is anyone out there that can help me i would be more than grateful. I used to be an office temp but because of the shortage of jobs the agency give younger females work and I am forgotten. PLEASE HELP ME!

Mon Feb 22

ORTHODOX MONK , 29 y.o.

After 6 years of Monastery meditation in the mountains of Transylvania in loneliness i am looking for friends in UK to to show my love learned in the Abbey. I am not a fake, i want to find a good pal. e-mail:

Mon Feb 08

Get out of the shyness wall

You build a wall around you to block your thoughts and ambitions. please come out as the world is a wonderful place depends how you draw it.

rnickdean at googlemail

Thu Jan 07

My confession

I am in a sexless relationship with someone. I like her and she is lovely. I know she likes me too. but I can't remember what was the last time we had have sex. Being a 30 year old male it is so difficult to cope up with this kind of situation. Most of the time we are together but still I fancy to meet someone else who is in the same situation. I am planning to register myself to adult websites to meet people.

Sun Oct 04

Keep going

Keep going man, try setting up working for yourself, kleeneze or some other brochure order type company - anything really that can help keep you busy - remember your own self worth and don't let the cynical job centre staff bring you down!!! Good luck

Fri Sep 25

Adultery

I'm a married 30 year old with 2 young boys and I have fallen in love with another woman....It makes me sick to the stomach, why have I let this happen?

Thu Aug 20

Lonely

For all you ladies out there who are complaining you're lonely, there is a way out. Many of you seem to be in the same situation - kist read all these posts, most of the say the same thing. So why not all get together and arrange one large meeting in a public place and all get to know eachother? Is anyone interested in this idea?

Tue Aug 18

Documentary Film Research? Maybe, but not real Therapy

Hi,

I’m a counsellor and also have documentary film making experience. Having read your ad, I just wanted to say that although it sounds like a very interesting project, I’m dubious about the outcome. The dynamics in the therapeutic relationship could be distorted by the presence of this third party, perhaps generating a set of fantasies and acting out that would not allow development of alliance between counsellor and patient to develop. Nevertheless, it can still be part of the work so best of luck to you!

Thu Jul 23

Woman in love or deluded fool

Hello everyone,

I'm a 35 year old lady who's in love with a man from work. He works in the Seattle branch of my company and I'm thinking of moving to Seattle so I can try to get with him, I'm fairly senior in the company and he works in another department but in a lower rank. My 'spies' have told me he's about to leave the company and move on.

Am I crazy for wanting to move my whole life to another country for this man? And if he moves on without leaving his contact details what do I do about finding him? Is this madness or the actions of a woman in love? Some perspective would be good. I appreciate the help

Thu Jul 02

fat friens

Mon Jun 01

Reply to "im lonely"

I'm also a female in my 30's.

I'm in a similar predicament to yourself. I don't have enough good female friends here in London.

I live in the Merton area. I'm not sure if this is too far for you to travel, but please do feel free to get in touch with me.

Best wishes.

Fri May 15

I am prepared to help you in your confessional matter.

Well let me firet introduce my self briefly, I am a priest but I live with common people as a common man. My name is Milan which has the meaning of beloved in many languages in the world. I practice meditation of loving kindness. I am trying to spread my love to all universal beings, well as a part of my life program I am looking to help to a lady who needs pure love . I am not prepared to have a sexual relationship as I am a priest but still I am prepared to get her married.

Please text your details to my mobile number ********7

Many thanks, peace be with you.

Milan.

Fri May 01

Are u in desperation yet

That is so weird man!!! Where are you from?

Mon Apr 20

dont forgive me

sorry i got to get this off my chest.... i pissed off a really tall building onto the street below, it was mayhem people runnning for cover getting soaked in piss, it was horrible and yet... and yet i just carried on, i dont know what came over me, i just watched as i covered inoccent people in piss. what if one of them was goning on a date? now they would smell like piss so the person they were seeing would they were disgusting and leave them or even worse now they all smelt like my piss all the the dogs they passed on the way home would piss on them too. what have i done? WHAT HAVE I DONE?

Sun Apr 12

dont forgive me

sorry i got to get this off my chest.... i pissed off a really tall building onto the street below, it was mayhem people runnning for cover getting soaked in piss, it was horrible and yet... and yet i just carried on, i dont know what came over me, i just watched as i covered inoccent people in piss. what if one of them was goning on a date? now they would smell like piss so the person they were seeing would they were disgusting and leave them or even worse now they all smelt like my piss all the the dogs they passed on the way home would piss on them too. what have i done? WHAT HAVE I DONE?

Sat Apr 11

Im so lonely

I live with a man who cant communicate and I often feel quite desperate. My children are grown and live, one in Oz the other N Devon and apart from one friend I have no one. I feel I should leave my husband but he is basically a good man, and we share a lot in common - but he just cannot talk. He sometimes sends me short emails suggesting we do something but doesnt mention them when he gets home. We often say nothing for days: he doesnt seem to notice; behaves as if everything is normal, offers me a cup of tea. We have tried therapy but he communicates painfully slowly in three word sentences and I love to talk so I feel I need to find friends, join a club and just get a life away from him to keep sane.

Mon Jan 26

you must have an interest in somthing

Do you like photography, dance, painting or art? join a club then you will be with people with the same interest as you. that is how you could meet a friend that also have the same interest as you.

good luck

Sun Jan 25

I just have to find a German bar/s.

I have a serious weakness for German accents and would very much like to meet a German man (30-40yrs old) to date. I don't want to do the internet dating thing and would prefer to meet people in the flesh from the very start. Can anyone out there please tell me where single German men hang out? Are there any such places in South London or the West End? Does anyone know a single German chap who is looking? All suggestions and tip offs will be very helpful and if could please mail them to

Fri Dec 05

Where are you?

I confess I am desperately fighting to find an accommodation for me and my 2 cats-Mr.Ginger and Mr.Niunio.How much I can pay-up to 150 pw,no more. Where are you our pet friendly future landlord? Answer for god's sake.Break the silence for I want to hear your voice.

Lamia

Thu Dec 04

I'm twenty two and only just in my first serious relationship, don't worry yet just relax and enjoy life - i only met my boyfriend because i stopped looking for a romantic guy!!

Tue Nov 25

if the man in your life has been abused

i have found a web site through the Oprah winphrey site{ www.oprah.com}" love among the ruins "about men who have been sexually abused as a child &/or man its called {malesurvivor.org}its also for the partners & familys who are trying to support & understand the men who have gone through such ordeals .hope this helps xxxxxxxxx

Thu Oct 16

reply of confesion of my husband

to the second person thank you for a reply .it seems like a more logical piece of advice to analize ,the first person who responded thankyou to,it just seemed a bit simplistic i wish i felt that way & just forget & move on ,hate & bitterness can be complex ,when my partner is trusting me as a best friend & because of my partner i now trust no one except my children.im always looking for an excuse to leave him & he cant understand what he has done wrong ,his loyalty is unwavering ,but all i want to do is leave him its very selfish of me because we have children ,i keep having children hoping my feelings for him would change,i do love him but it never goes away .i will stay for the kids & for him but not sure how long it will last or if i will find true happiness with him,we will see

Sat Aug 02

Do you know which aspect of his history upsets you the most? Maybe if you could work this out it might help. I met a girl once who became hooked on opium and worked as a S&M dominatrix. She described how all she really wanted was to love and be loved, and that a bad sequence of events tipped her into a state where she couldn't trust people. The drugs and her relationships with customers became her substitute for a real relationship. I don't think it necessarily takes lot to tip people over. I'm not surprised to hear your friend had trouble in his teenage years. I think it genuinely takes courage and resolve to come back. You say that you want to avoid men with messed up past, and I do understand this. I just wanted to suggest that maybe the love you get from someone who has been to dark place and come back is different, more wise, more intense than from someone who has never had to struggle. Please forgive me if this is a clumsy reply.

Wed Jul 30

Hi M,

I never respond these postings much, but find your struggles so similar to my own that I had to reply. I think many of us, women & men, have more lessons to learn & surprises that come our way. I firmly believe that one primary lifelong personal challenge threads through each life, and unfortunately resurfaces again and again. Now I am getting depressed! No, seriously the upside to my lost and often insecure self, is that I am finally appreciating myself for being the vulnerable, nice, & unassuming person that I saw as weak all my life. I am understanding better the cycle of behaviors that I tend to adopt & how they lead me to isolate myself. And really as long as I am aware of how not to cycle into this I can at least be a step ahead. Basically, I am coming to accept that I (and have always been this way) am more of a one-on-one type of person, because I like to put my all into a friendship. I am just not a big group party multi-aquaintance type of person.

Sat Jul 19