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Posted by Anon (!) Sep 2005 in 'Suggest a new Forum:' How about a forum where we can tell secrets publicly and bare our soles and release that devil from our head so we don't have the pressure hanging over us.



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Confessional My confession  

I am in a sexless relationship with someone. I like her and she is lovely. I know she likes me too. but I can't remember what was the last time we had have sex. Being a 30 year old male it is so difficult to cope up with this kind of situation. Most of the time we are together but still I fancy to meet someone else who is in the same situation. I am planning to register myself to adult websites to meet people.  Mail-me 

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Confessional Adultery  

I'm a married 30 year old with 2 young boys and I have fallen in love with another woman....It makes me sick to the stomach, why have I let this happen?

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Confessional I am prepared to help you in your confessional matter.  

Well let me firet introduce my self briefly, I am a priest but I live with common people as a common man. My name is Milan which has the meaning of beloved in many languages in the world. I practice meditation of loving kindness. I am trying to spread my love to all universal beings, well as a part of my life program I am looking to help to a lady who needs pure love . I am not prepared to have a sexual relationship as I am a priest but still I am prepared to get her married.
Please text your details to my mobile number 07529545687
Many thanks, peace be with you.
Milan.

Post reply -->London Confessional Milan 1 May
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Confessional Im so lonely  

I live with a man who cant communicate and I often feel quite desperate. My children are grown and live, one in Oz the other N Devon and apart from one friend I have no one. I feel I should leave my husband but he is basically a good man, and we share a lot in common - but he just cannot talk. He sometimes sends me short emails suggesting we do something but doesnt mention them when he gets home. We often say nothing for days: he doesnt seem to notice; behaves as if everything is normal, offers me a cup of tea. We have tried therapy but he communicates painfully slowly in three word sentences and I love to talk so I feel I need to find friends, join a club and just get a life away from him to keep sane.

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Confessional Lonely  

For all you ladies out there who are complaining you're lonely, there is a way out. Many of you seem to be in the same situation - kist read all these posts, most of the say the same thing. So why not all get together and arrange one large meeting in a public place and all get to know eachother? Is anyone interested in this idea?

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Confessional belinda  

Hi belinda I also had the same thought & think it would be great. For a group.of us to get together how shall we start this?

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Confessional Where are you?  

I confess I am desperately fighting to find an accommodation for me and my 2 cats-Mr.Ginger and Mr.Niunio.How much I can pay-up to 150 pw,no more. Where are you our pet friendly future landlord? Answer for god's sake.Break the silence for I want to hear your voice.
Lamia
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Confessional Husband Pros - Past  

Hi

Past is like something under skin. Don't scratch too much,it wud bleed and pain. Can you do something to undo what happened due to circumstances then ? If you can't, then just let it go. Can you rewind it ? If you can't then play present and move forward.

If the present is good, play it. Why do you look back, what 's the need to rewind ? The more you look back and then try to forget/adjust, more difficult would it be... Just move on with flow.

Practice sitting alone with your eyes shut and count your breath 1-10... Practice it. Mark my words, this 'past problem' would appear to you trivial and your would love him more.

If you want to further discuss, E  Mail-me 
I simply help by chatting without any obligations.

Take care of your present. Don't worry what had happened several years back. Hold every moment of present. Live in your present. Just DO IT.

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Confessional  

Do you know which aspect of his history upsets you the most? Maybe if you could work this out it might help. I met a girl once who became hooked on opium and worked as a S&M dominatrix. She described how all she really wanted was to love and be loved, and that a bad sequence of events tipped her into a state where she couldn't trust people. The drugs and her relationships with customers became her substitute for a real relationship. I don't think it necessarily takes lot to tip people over. I'm not surprised to hear your friend had trouble in his teenage years. I think it genuinely takes courage and resolve to come back. You say that you want to avoid men with messed up past, and I do understand this. I just wanted to suggest that maybe the love you get from someone who has been to dark place and come back is different, more wise, more intense than from someone who has never had to struggle. Please forgive me if this is a clumsy reply.

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Confessional Im Lonely  

I have never spoken out loud before about this. Itís embarrassing for me to admit I have no friends.

I go to work every day then come home have dinner and watch television. That is it... Every weekend including the long Bank Holiday ones, I find myself alone. Sometimes I cry but mostly I try not to think about my loneliness.

This evening I realised I have to make a serious effort to get a best friend. But I donít have a clue where to start. I donít want to meet someone who is just interested in going to nightclubs. Iím looking for someone I can talk to on a regular basis, pop over to their place with a bottle or mine whichever. Iím female in my early thirties based in Willesden Green, London.
There must be others out there like me I wish I could find them.

If you recognise yourself in anything I have said or if you feel you have some words of wisdom for me please please message me on  Mail-me 



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Confessional Lonely  

Hi maybe check out plusgroups.org.uk - national federation of 18 plus groups for 18 to 35 year olds, social group to meet others looking to expand their social life

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Confessional Response to Im Lonely  

It was as though I was reading about myself - I'm in exactly the same boat as you and I'm sure we're not alone. It is really hard to make friends when you are over 30, I'm 34 and I get really frustrated because you need friends to be able to go out and meet new ones - we can't wander the streets of London with a sign post saying I'm lonely, please help. I don't know what the answer is, but I've left my email address if you want to contact me.  Mail-me 

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Confessional This world of strangers...  

Hi M

I was quite touched by your posting on this website. But trust me you are NOT ALONE in thinking like this. In this city of LONDONERS, I guess there are thousands who are in similar situations like yours and 'mine' too. Many like us have somehow not been able to get into the circle. We wait and wait at the periphery to be called inside the circle. And at times, our efforts to get into one are either rejected or ridiculed. I found several ways to deal with it including Yoga, Meditation, Naturism, Cooking and spending time with myself. These helped, but surely I need sometimes someone who can share, feel with me. Whom I can appreciate and motivate...

If you like please mention or send me a line. We can progress further. Take care..

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Confessional you must have an interest in somthing  

Do you like photography, dance, painting or art? join a club then you will be with people with the same interest as you. that is how you could meet a friend that also have the same interest as you.
good luck

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Confessional Reply to "im lonely"  

I'm also a female in my 30's.
I'm in a similar predicament to yourself. I don't have enough good female friends here in London.
I live in the Merton area. I'm not sure if this is too far for you to travel, but please do feel free to get in touch with me.
Best wishes.
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Confessional  

that's so strange, I was just coming on here to post something similar. Only difference is, I have kids so if it wasn't for them.....

I still want friends too though but don't know where to start either - i'm in my thirties like you. I just find it terribly embarrasing when people ask me about friends because I just don't have even one. I feel lost sometimes.

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Confessional  

Hello just in case it would help
I am a frenchman who love to speak english and would like to improve. I am looking for an english woman who likes to speak and visit with me. I am 65 slim, doing sport (cycling, jogging, cross-country skiing. I live near St-Etienne in France and I hope to go to england to speak and improve my english I do'nt know when.  Mail-me 
If you like a company for only two or three days, without romance but only friendship I will be happy to meet you. I will tell you more if you answer me Paul


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Confessional This world of strangers...  

Hi

Friendship creates no boundaries for kids. You can have kids as well as friends.

Take life in a flow... pls contact  Mail-me 

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Confessional hummm  

I like this confessional! It means that you can say anything you like in here. Just write you heart out. Be honest about your feelings.
I am 29 and feeling a bit lonely in this big city packed with people. I had a a few close friends but they moved away.... So, I know find myself craving for some intimate friendship. Friends I could go out with, do things with such as cinema, bars, clubs, walks, dinner, cook, drink, talk to and do all these beautiful things that friends usually do together, such as support each other.... I really miss that. Any ideas on how to find friends in London anyone?
I enjoy a lot of diferent activities and easy going.

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Confessional National Federation of 18 Plus Groups  

Hi you could check out their website and see if any groups in your area, for people wishing to widen their social life for 18s to 35s

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Confessional Hummm  

There are many places you can go to make friends, groups and clubs, etc. It is a bit difficult to give you advice as I don't know whether you are female or male. The importance of that is that knowing would be better to point you in one direction or another.

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Confessional Re: hummm  

Fancy a quickie then? I can offer that

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Confessional can any one help  

Hi I'm a young single mother 29 of a happy active boy of 9.
i am soooo lonely, i don't have any friends as all my friends are single with no kids and i feel they pity me,
which i really don't want,
someone very close to me has just passed away and i feel so lost , lonely and empty, and i keep finding that i am pushing my son away.
i really don't want to live anymore and each day i am finding the fight to live harder.
has anyone got any advice for me please..................
really could do with some help

thank you

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Confessional can anyone help  

M, I think you should see your GP to see if they can refer you for some counselling or mental health support as you are going through a rough time and are thinking about not being alive. Losing someone close can be a very painful and difficult time. I lost my Mum almost 3 years ago and still miss her every day. I had bereavement counselling which taught me rather than thinking that the pain of the bereavement will get less (which I did not want to hear) rather that I would learn to grow around it....and to be honest I have. There is a way forward for you and your son and you owe it to both of you to seek help to start looking at how. CRUSE do a good website on bereavement, MIND produce loads of materials to help with feeling low - there is also the samaritans available every day. But I think see your GP or contact your local mental health team - there is one in every area - who can help you with the right track. Good luck.

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Confessional  

Hey,

You need to start taking control of your life...step at a time. Have you talked about this to some close friends of yours? You will be surprised at how supportive people are!

Also, how about taking up an activity that you really enjoy. Give yourself some "me" time and it would also be a great way to meet some new people.

Hope it helps.

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Confessional m  

Hi M what area do you live in? I could see whether any services around which may be of help to you.

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Confessional  

Dear sister

I read your post. Please email me if you are still looking for someone to talk to. my email is:

 Mail-me 

Kindest regards



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Confessional M  

If you can put your email on here then there are all sorts of things you can do to enjoy your life. I could let you know of functions, etc.

 Mail-me 

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Confessional Hi M,  

I never respond these postings much, but find your struggles so similar to my own that I had to reply. I think many of us, women & men, have more lessons to learn & surprises that come our way. I firmly believe that one primary lifelong personal challenge threads through each life, and unfortunately resurfaces again and again. Now I am getting depressed! No, seriously the upside to my lost and often insecure self, is that I am finally appreciating myself for being the vulnerable, nice, & unassuming person that I saw as weak all my life. I am understanding better the cycle of behaviors that I tend to adopt & how they lead me to isolate myself. And really as long as I am aware of how not to cycle into this I can at least be a step ahead. Basically, I am coming to accept that I (and have always been this way) am more of a one-on-one type of person, because I like to put my all into a friendship. I am just not a big group party multi-aquaintance type of person.

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Confessional Confessional  

Hi, it's been a while since your ad. Hope you found a friend by now. If you are still in need, there is a parent n child club opening near me, depending on where you live, where you can meet others. If interested email me on:  Mail-me 
Pam

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