London Confessional
Posted by Anon (!) Sep 2005 in 'Suggest a new Forum:' How about a forum where we can tell secrets publicly and bare our soles and release that devil from our head so we don't have the pressure hanging over us.
Posted by Anon (!) Sep 2005 in 'Suggest a new Forum:' How about a forum where we can tell secrets publicly and bare our soles and release that devil from our head so we don't have the pressure hanging over us.
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| Please don't try to advertise products or services in this forum. Thank you. Post or Ask something here in 'Confessional' ConfessionalHi all I've just read through some of the previous posts n its so sad to hear just how lonely so many people are. I have hardly any friends so know that feeling of isolation so well. I spend days with my only conversation from either my young son or work colleagues. Christmas iscoming up and is another reminder of just how alone I am. I've tried making friends on these friendship sites but although people I've met seemed like the were also looking for genuine friendships they always fizzle out after a while. Fed up of always feeling Luke an outsider looking in on the world full of people that have lives full of people. I'm a good person, loyal, social, chatty & fun. I just don't understand why I can't make a few genuine friends. Post reply -->London Confessional 7 Dec Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional LONELYYou sound like me! So so true. You meet people and just when you think you have made a new friend you never hear from them again. So sad so sad. Good Luck you know the song "always look on the bright side of life" (well you can try lol)! Post reply -->London Confessional Sarah 14 Dec Should we remove this post ? ^ ConfessionalHi, not sure if you'd even see my reply but i can also relate to your post and you're really not the only one. I too, am finding it hard to make friends although i'm sociable and a genuine person. And just when i think i've made a friend it does fizzle out. I just think if people don't bother to make the effort to build a friendship theyre not worth having as a friend in the long run. I hope youre successful in finding friends and wish you all the best :) Post reply -->London Confessional 12 Jan Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional hello theremy name is domi ,female ,on my thirties.sometimes I feel that way too !!!I also have a son he is six !!!we live in SE .what is your name? coffee sometime?all the best Post reply -->London Confessional domi 8 May Should we remove this post ? ^ ConfessionalConfessionalHi all I've just read through some of the previous posts & its so sad to hear just how lonely so many people are. I have hardly any friends so know that feeling of isolation so well. I spend days with my only conversation from either my young son or work colleagues. Christmas is coming up and is another reminder of just how alone I am. I've tried making friends on these friendship sites but although people I've spoken to / emailed seemed like the were also looking for genuine friendships they always fizzle out after a while. Fed up of always feeling like an outsider looking in on the world full of people that have lives full of people. I'm a good person, loyal, social, chatty & fun. I just don't understand why I can't make a few genuine friends. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional 7 Dec Should we remove this post ? | These aren't commercial ads below: they are a rotating selection of postings contributed by MoveThat.com users in the last 24h. |
 | Confessional BETTER OFF DEADHow much can people take. Think i am so bad God is punishing me. Feel so lonely. When you need someone there is no one around no one cares no one cares. Post reply -->London Confessional Anon 28 Sep Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional oh dear, that doesnIt's not good to hear another person going through a bad time. And it can turn into a cycle of self fulfilling negativity... Pushing people away or drawing the wrong people in. I guess it's up to all of us to create that sense of belonging for each other but that also starts with creating that in ourselves, doesn't it? There's lots of things that can help... Start the search, then find the people who are also on that voyage :) you'll do it, but not if you stay posting feelings into forums or contemplating an end. Wish u the very best, I survived similar darkness, I 'm sure u can too :D Post reply -->London Confessional goodwill 27 Oct Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional Oh dearLife is incredible and sometimes hard. But sometimes we attract bad stuff into our lives just as we can attract amazing, beautiful things into our lives. I sometimes have a bad day. Then I look at my cats or a beautiful yellow leaf, or just the fact that I have good skin/ good health/ a roof over my head and I am greatful. Everything is put into perspective when this happens and it reminds me to be grateful for the good things in my life, I realise that these outway the negatives. Everything starts with one, you. Love you first and give and offer help to those that need it. Try it yourself. Cx Post reply -->London Confessional Anon 19 Nov Should we remove this post ? Confessional ONE LIFEHey, guys and girls how about all of us meeting up and then we can cheer each other up! Get back to me if you dare lol! Post reply -->London Confessional anon 30 Aug Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional HAPPINESSWhat a great idea. Yes I dared to get back to you lol. Post reply -->London Confessional Sarah 16 Jan Should we remove this post ? Confessional ContIve been feeling very low for over a year now . Initially I tried to be positive and find good things in bad situation and convince myself that this is just temporary and if you stay positive things will change for the better. Ive also tried counselling but it didn't help because I know that my depression is caused by social isolation. I m overwhelmed by the feeling of despair and I feel I ve reached my breaking point . All I need is an ocassional good night out with good conversations and some laughs Post reply -->London Confessional anon 8 Aug Should we remove this post ? ^ ConfessionalHey there, I'm actually hoping this finds you in a much happier frame of mind already but if not drop me a line and let's have a good old moan together :) I'm a 28yr old female and also pretty alone in London so would be nice to chat. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional 6 Sep Should we remove this post ? Confessional Cont I ve also recently had a lot of problems at work, where I ve been demoted due to budget cuts and my new manager's idea of managing people is to constantly reproach them and demonstrate her superiority at every possible and trivial situation. My confidence has been badly really affected by that and I can't find it in any more to make an effort and speak to anyone at work. Post reply -->London Confessional 8 Aug Should we remove this post ? Confessional Please help - contI feel so lonely and starved of human interactions. I feel this is really badly affecting my brain, my mental health and my personality. I m in a relationship but my relationship badly suffers due to lack of social life and opportunities I desperately need to be able to have social contact with more than just one person. Post reply -->London Confessional 8 Aug Should we remove this post ? Confessional please helpI feel extremely lonely and isolated. I m a normal women , relatively intelligent and good looking , fun loving with lots of interest ,well travelled , compassionate and with something to say for myself. Yet for one reason or another all my friends just drifted out from my life and I hardly have any social life. I ve tried a number of social networking sites and meet up groups but i found them very superficial and temporary . I really struggled to to make any meaningful friendships through those groups. By this I mean where you really become a part of someone's life ( and vice versa) and where you can have shared experiences and can talkto each other about everything. Any friendships i had made only lasted a couple of years and then people just moved on to other things and I hardly see them anymore. Post reply -->London Confessional anon 8 Aug Should we remove this post ? Confessional feeling very lowFrequently experiencing bouts of depression and touch wood I have just pulled myself from another dark cloud. The trouble is my relationship is on the rocks and my partner though generally lovely has a terrible (verbal) temper when he is argumenative. The other day I caught him looking at other women when we were out driving - he has never done this before. I am in love with him and he says I can trust him but I am struggling to do this. I am now worried whether he may be having affairs as his behaviour blows hot and cold. Should I just put this down to a bad patch or confront him? Sorry to sound so absorbed - believe it or not I am normally a happy person but just struggling of late whether I am being paranoid or it would be perfectly acceptable to ask him?? Post reply -->London Confessional Anon 25 Apr Should we remove this post ? Confessional HAPPINESSIt is so good to be able to say things on here when you are feeling sorry for yourself. Yes, there is no harm in thinking like that because if i do not think of myself who else would My life is nearly over but I look back and wonder to myself has anybody ever loved me and the only person who i can remember was my late father. Life is so short those who have found ever lasting love are blessed they can never know how lucky they are. All I ever wanted in my life was to be loved, was that too much to ask for i wonder. Post reply -->London Confessional janet 15 Mar Should we remove this post ? Confessional just founda great site called meet up' it's london based & has lots of cool groups to take part within.. Post reply -->London Confessional 2 Jan Should we remove this post ? Confessional Heylets all work to towards a happy year :0) open your hearts to a new adventure.. reading some of these post makes me feel sad that there's so many people feeling a bit lost & low at the moment' we should form a group where we can a little moan & shed some sad moments.. get a little drink & have group hug's :0) all the best to you all T Post reply -->London Confessional 1 Jan Should we remove this post ? ^ ConfessionalI agree I believe their are many lonely people out,there & life is too short., as for me on news years eve all my friends have partners so no invites for,me : ( but I don't want sympathy because iv decidgoiing to do my best to change that :) if anyone reading this is in similar situation feel free to email me , I'm a female genuine 43 live in east London & am interested if anyone knows of any social groups or have ideas. Cheers Post reply -->London Confessional angie. c. 3 Jan Should we remove this post ? ^ ConfessionalI agree I believe their are many lonely people out,there & life is too short., as for me on news years eve all my friends have partners so no invites for,me : ( but I don't want sympathy because iv decidgoiing to do my best to change that :) if anyone reading this is in similar situation feel free to email me , I'm a female genuine 43 live in east London & am interested if anyone knows of any social groups or have ideas. Cheers Post reply -->London Confessional angie. c. 3 Jan Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional HUGS ETC.Now that sounds a good idea to me Post reply -->London Confessional 4 Jan Should we remove this post ? ^ ConfessionalHi are you planning to a social group up? Great count me in please, u can email me at Mail-me ( lower case ) sorry if I seem a little impatient its just thinks there is a need for this ,, all the best everyone Post reply -->London Confessional ange 5 Jan Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional hihi i know its a really late reply.but still if u are interested to chat please feel free to email me on Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional fahim 13 Aug Should we remove this post ? Confessional CHRISTMAS DAYI hope today goes by quickly I am on my own and feel so alone..... I feel there is no one who really cares of loves me. I feel guilty when I think of others less fortunate than myself and am trying not to feel ashamed of myself feeling this way. I wish everyone out there finds joy in each and every moment each day. xxx Post reply -->London Confessional 25 Dec Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional hope you had a good day..^ Confessional CHRISTMASThank you for your kind thoughts. I hope you are having a lovely time over Christmas. Post reply -->London Confessional 26 Dec Should we remove this post ? ^ Confessional christmaswas ok in the end' got round to some friends :0) looking to start the new year on a happy note.. hope you are too? Post reply -->London Confessional 30 Dec Should we remove this post ? Confessional liarJust wanted to get off my chest how my life has drastically changed for the worse since I met a man that I eventually discovered was a pathological liar. I nearly married this man, I planned a life with him. I Introduced him to every aspect of my life as you would the man you wished to spend the rest of your life with. Over 2 years later, I have been left in a total mess. I am a very good judge of character, believe me. He is an astoundingly good and highly believable liar. He is genuinely well accomplished, yet chooses to also fabricate large chunks of his life I presume to feel better about himself. They say you can judge a man by the company he keeps, well the very few friends he has were lovely, and totally had no idea he had fabricated his army career (I confirmed his lies via Sandhurst). I now see he lied constantly, about everything. It scares me that there are such people around. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? Post reply -->London Confessional isabel 18 Dec Should we remove this post ? |